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Why do Lenders Lie About Homebuyer Assistance?

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A local lender friend of mine, Brad Yzermans of HomeLoanArtist.com, is one of the good guys in the home loan industry.

Brad is a staunch consumer advocate, and invests heavily in educating and empowering consumers, similar to my mission here on this website.

Last week, Brad posted this very familiar story on Facebook:

HOW EMBARRASSING – The level of incompetence is at EPIDEMIC PROPORTIONS in my industry. Folks, this happens way more often than you could possibly imagine. I get a call from a person 5 minutes ago, he has a pre-approval letter from a lender for $450,000 home purchase, gets his offer accepted, $7,500 down in earnest money deposit, appraisal paid for, home inspection paid for, and the lender who pre-approved just called to say he cannot qualify.

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Why did he not qualify? Lender forgot that the assistance program he needed to use had a DTI cap of 45%. What was his DTI? 52.5%.

So now what? Borrower is 22 days into escrow….the loan officer told him and his RE agent it was safe to sign off on the loan contingency…..so now he will likely lose his $7,500 earnest money deposit, wasted $450 on an appraisal, and $300 for home inspection.

His choice in lenders just cost him $8,250 AND not to mention all of the time & energy invested in looking for homes, has to beg his landlord to let him stay in the home he gave 30 day notice on, and has to tell his 3 kids that he couldn’t qualify for the loan. I feel sorry for the guy.

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I am so embarrassed to be lumped in with so many bad loan officers who care so little about their borrowers and real estate agent partners and refuse to do their due diligence……what a horrible way to end the day and week.

Unfortunately, this Facebook post resulted in a long list of comments from other lender friends of mine that have the same experiences, multiple times a week.  Misinformation and lying lenders is  an epidemic.

Why Do Lenders Lie?

I know that “lie” is a pretty harsh word, and I believe that in most cases, there is not a preconceived plan to mislead, or lie to the consumer.  I do believe however, that poor training and possibly even pressure to meet sales quotas could cause an inexperienced loan officer to say “Yes”, when in fact they do not know the answer to your question.

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Last week, I wrote an article about an email that I received with a very similar story to the one that Brad describes above.

I received an email from a homebuyer that is currently in escrow on their dream home, only to be told at the 11th hour that the $12,000 in buyer assistance they were expecting, is not available.

The lender actually told this trusting homebuyer that they “just missed” a change in the program that no longer makes them eligible.  That was a flat out, blatant lie.

There was never any change to the program, and the homebuyer never qualified for the assistance they were led to believe was available to them.

The laws of statistical analysis would tell you that these instances that we know about, represent a wide spread occurrence of misinformation that is being propagated against unknowing and trusting consumers.

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It’s Not Always the Lender’s Fault

Go ahead and sit down for this one, you might not like the point I’m going to make here, but here it is – Consumers falling for lies is not always the lender’s fault. There, I said it, now let me back it up.

Like my friend Brad, I am an expert in buyer assistance programs, and I would go so far as to say myself, and my team are experts at mortgage lending.  We go through extreme lengths to stay informed about changes in underwriting guidelines, loan programs, and specifically buyer assistance programs available in California.

For this reason, I get these types of phone calls and emails all of the time.  The most common story I hear that scares the heck out of me is this.

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I’m pre-approved already, but I need money for the downpayment

I am pre-approved, but I don’t have the money for down payment or closing costs.  My reply is the same reply that I give to every single one of these phone calls, or emails, and it is this:  You are NOT pre-approved if you do not have the money for down payment or closing costs.  Period.

Is it the consumers fault that you are being lied to?  In a way, yes. As an empowered and informed consumer, you have free and open access to the truth, but do you really want to hear it?

There is a mentality that I see among consumers that if one person tells you “NO”, keep looking until you find someone that will say “YES”.

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If you refuse to believe when someone tells you that cannot qualify for a certain program, and you keep calling around until you find someone that says you can, you actually asked for it.

You didn’t take “NO” for an answer and continued to search for until you found an uninformed, inexperienced, “willing to lie to you” lender that cares more about commissions and quotas, than they care about consumers.

How to Avoid Being Lied to By Your Lender

A lender that is truly looking out for your best interest will not just tell you what you want to hear, we will help educate you, and show you that there is always more than one option.

A lender cares about you making an informed decision will provide you links, guidelines and options so that you have all of the facts, and can determine for yourself, which is the best option for you and your family.

A lender that is committed to educating and empowering consumers shares this information freely, without charge, so that you have the tools you need to consider all of the benefits, and possible downsides to every option available to you.

Do not take it for granted that the first person you talk to is telling you the truth.  If the first person you speak to gives you the data and guidelines to back up their recommendation, continue to do your homework to confirm for yourself that these options are indeed available to you.

Buyer Assistance Basics Everyone Should Know

I wrote a more detailed article about this topic last week, you can read that here – Buyer Assistance Basics Everyone Should Know.

At a glance, here are a few of the absolute basic qualifying guidelines that would have prevented Brad’s buyer, and the one I encountered last week, from wasting time, money and high levels of stress and frustration.

Buyer Assistance Qualifying Basics

  • Minimum Credit Score – 640
  • Maximum 1st Loan Amount – $417,000
  • Maximum Debt to Income – 45% DTI

Another common condition of most buyer assistance programs is income limits.  These income limits are most commonly determined by the County you are buying in, and usually the number of people that will be living in the household. Make sure you see the income qualifying charts and understand these limits for yourself.

About Your Expert

Scott Schang

A 20 year veteran of the Mortgage and Real Estate industry, I am passionate about educating and empowering consumers. I have been writing about consumer protection issues, and making sense of complicated real estate and mortgage topics on this website since 2007

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  • ReboGateway says:

    RT MtgRealtor BradYzermans: Read the real reason why lenders lie to borrowers about home buyer assistance programs. https://www.findmywayhome.com/home-mortgage-news/why-do-lenders-lie-about-homebuyer-assistance/

  • benutech says:

    BradYzermans You’re welcome, thank you too! 🙂

  • BradYzermans says:

    massrealty Thanks for sharing Bill.

  • BradYzermans says:

    benutech Thanks for sharing!

  • BradYzermans says:

    retipsterseth Thanks for sharing Seth.

  • Brad Yzermans says:

    Scott, thank you for sharing that story.  Your actions and efforts are a beath of fresh air in the lending community.  You definitely raise the bar our mortgage industry and are an example that all loan officers should strive for.  

    We have much in common as we strive to bring a higher level of transparency to the consumer and educate both borrower and our real estate friends.

    I think you’ve said this before, but our industry needs more loan officers who’s goal is to educate and inform (both themselves and borrowers), and not more loan officers who spend most of their time learning how to apply sales closing techniques to convince real estate agents to refer buyers to them and/or how to trick buyers into working with them. 

    When someone calls me and says they are already pre-approved (actually have a pre-approval letter) but don’t have money for down payment or closing costs, I cringe.  I can’t tell you how many times they tell me they are pre-approved for up to (for exmaple purposes) $400,000 and as I review their entire qualifying documentation, find out they really only qualify for maybe $300,000 because the lender failed to account for a non-borrowing spouses debt, have 2106 expenses, have a schedule C business loss, have a 2nd job income that cannot be counted, have student loan debt that is not or cannot be deferred, property taxes were underestimated, or have OT/Bonus income that is not considered stable or have a two year history.  

    If I were a borrower, I would demand my loan officer prove they are an expert in the field.  In my opinion, the best way to do that is to share information as you do.  You have invested thousands of hours into personally building/writing information on your website/blog (not cookie cutter templated loan info) that clearly demonstrates your expertise and desire to educate, inform, and empower.  

    Well done!

    • Scott Schang says:

      Thanks Brad, I am hoping that together, we can cause enough of a ripple in all that noise and mass misinformation to get people to sit up and notice. You inspire me to be even noisier than I already am!

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